This is an area where I don't want to talk too much to my friends. Since in this forum we don't know each other personally... I see this as a place for learning from other husbands.
What do you think?
Can we talk about marriage and sex life here?
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Posted 3 months ago #
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Good thing you brought that up bro! Sex life is the primary key in the success of a married life.
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Marriage is an ancient Aramaic word meaning lack of sex.
Sudies show that when a man gets married part of his brain shuts down. Part of that has to do with sex. Not sex in general just sex with you. To him you are becoming invisible. Now you understand why swingers have a divorce rate of 5% or less.
Posted 3 months ago # -
You can talk about marriage and sex life as long as they do not turn into PORN
Posted 3 months ago # -
Regarding the post of now_i_m_here, my mind is like-- 'no this can't be'. Let me quote some parts: "Marriage is an ancient Aramaic word meaning lack of sex."
As for me, sex becomes "legalize' with marriage.
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic.(this is from wikipedia, which I strongly agree on).
Posted 3 months ago # -
Marko, the best way to strengthen your relationship with your wife is communication. And that includes this topic. You try to explore and discuss things like this.
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In our church, we set a certain night for this discussion. All the wives will be in another house talking about families and us. And the men will also be having fellowship in another house. With this, one can share and at the same learn about marriage, sex and relationship.
Posted 3 months ago # -
That's a wonderful activity you have there apl! What is your religion? I'm not active in church and so I'm not sure if we have one like this.
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Mommygonz is right. Apl's activity is a great opportunity of learning. Sex is an essential part of marriage. This improves and strengthens relationship. Men are more aggressive about this activity compared to women. I always explain to my wife the importance of satisfaction for both of us.
Posted 3 months ago # -
That's very true michael! My husband is more touchy and physical. I guess it's man's nature.
Posted 3 months ago #
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